@aphyr if you haven't been properly introduced I'd say it would be pretty scandalous to start talking to each other, so I'd say that you should both continue to interact with your lover while ignoring the other person, until your lover does a proper introductionwhile getting railed of course, I guessok, maybe the victorian etiquette manuals aren't the right place to look for an answer :D(unless previously negotiated. but you need to have talked to each other to do so, so you need to have been introduc. no. wait.)
