When it came to my turn, I said, "I don't want to change anything. I'm perfect the way I am." [gasps] "Val!" [shocked and offended looks]I had meant it sarcastically (*) but they all took it seriously and it was clearly unacceptable. Imagine, thinking you're good enough! (* semi sarcastically)I mean, I never actually thought I was perfect. But I did think I was good enough. And I resented the group exercise in self-abasement. #exmo